Sleeping with a girl on the first date? A dream for a lot of guys… But as you know, women are more hesitant when it comes to sex, especially on the first night. But why would you do that? And how can you still manage to seduce the pretty lady on your first date and manage to put her in your bed? This is exactly what will be explained with these few tricks.
Comprendre pourquoi les femmes ne sont pas « chaudes » pour le sexe au premier rendez-vous ?
But why do so many women refuse sex on the first date and avoid erotic rapprochement? The reason: few girls want to be called “sluts” or be considered “an easy girl” let alone a “nympho”. Above all, they want to protect their reputation or they want to be in love first and foremost. Unfortunately, in our society, it is always true that sex is judged differently according to their sexual behavior. Sexually open women are quickly referred to as plan. Having sex on the first night therefore means a high risk for them, as far as their own reputation is concerned… So it’s not your fault that you, as a man, have such problems in attracting girls.
Comment les mettre au lit après un premier rendez-vous ?
From the reluctance of women, many men conclude with a girl are doomed to fail. Don’t get me wrong! Even if the chicks seem reluctant to have sex from the first night, you should never forget that they are at least as naughty as you as a man and have their fantasies and a sex life. You just need to shake off her sensuality and eroticism by conveying a sense of self-confidence and keeping a low profile, so that she wants to be accosted and engage in sexual practices. For this, there are a few tricks. And for that, there are dredge techniques.
Planifier votre rencontre plan cul
It’s all about preparation and this statement has never been truer. Organization is a big part of the success of your goal. First of all, as a man, you need to build up your self-confidence and program your mind to have sex today. Buy condoms so that sex doesn’t fail because of the mundane reason for running out of contraceptives. A good wine and candles for a date atmosphere are not too much. If your room looks like a construction site, clean up and most importantly, think of clean sheets! Your beau should finally feel comfortable, so that she can get sexually involved.
Réveillez votre désir sexuel déjà au téléphone
To increase sexual desire during a naughty encounter, you need to have a conversation with a woman a few days before the first date. Try to direct the conversation to a dirty discussion in a subtle way. The whole thing is to introduce little by little erotic envy between you. If you’re already getting your caller on the phone to think about sex, then you’ve created a perfect starting point for sleeping with her on the first date.
Faites-lui penser au sexe (avec vous) !
You can also tell a salace joke or make other sexual references. There are many ways to steer the subject on the erotic track. It’s important to stay in the conversation. At the same time, be careful how uncomfortable she can become. If she doesn’t like to talk openly with men about sexual intimacy, you have to accept it. Women who are open to such topics, however, are more easily seduced. If you do it right, you will often find that at some point she will have fun with you with phrases like: “We have to stop talking about sex, otherwise I’ll be very excited…!” And that’s exactly what you want to achieve as a determined man.
Le premier rendez-vous directement chez vous ?
Have you met your conquest on a dating site or by chance on the street? It may not be a good idea to suggest to him right away to go to your house to sleep together… In this case, it is best to find yourself in a neutral place such as a café or bar. Remember, she barely knows you and will not have the confidence to visit you at your home. After all, you could be a descendant of Jack the Ripper (she might think). However, if she is already some kind of friend or acquaintance (e.g. university, work or club, etc.), you should not be afraid to invite her home to cook something together and watch a movie. If she rejects this suggestion, you can always meet her in town, then take the next step to take her with you.
Proximité et confiance : les règles de base du rendez-vous
The woman will only engage in sex on her first date if she feels well. That is, in conversation, a sexual attraction and a deeper bond of trust should appear. Therefore, it is important to emphasize the rules that you, as a man, must essentially pay attention to the first appointment:
- Embrassez-la et intensifiez les contacts physiques au cours de la rencontre.
- Asseyez-vous dans le café ou le restaurant à côté d’elle (si possible sur un canapé ou un banc confortable) pour pouvoir établir une proximité physique.
In addition, you need to know how to conduct conversations and ask the right questions to get to know her better. Guide the conversation at the sexual level with appropriate subtle allusions. If things are going well, try to kiss him as much as possible during your meeting.